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Marci Keats Rudolph 🇨🇦's avatar

I am continually drawn in to your articles which are so human. That your father would finally disclose the hardships he endured at such an advanced is touching. I wish my dad had done the same.

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Anna C Rumin's avatar

Thankyou Alice - you continue to reveal your story, weaving together what you learn, reminding the reader it’s never too late to ask the question.

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Jinks Hoffmann's avatar

What a remarkable story, Alice, and somehow in all of it, your father's dignity and decency shine through. I have never read of the "marches" of non-Jewish people during the war. It is so fine that your father talked and you listened. And so sad.

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Sari Lubitsch Tudiver's avatar

For me, this chapter deepens the story and pivots it in time. I am so moved that your father, at 96, despite frailty and the institutional setting, was able to share details of the death march as a young man. The mind soars. I look forward to reading the next chapters.

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Gina Roitman's avatar

We all carry the contents of the lives of those who came before us. However, it is something we are only prepared to face when we are older and recognize the burden of unasked questions.

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RACHAEL’S REFLECTIONS AT 85's avatar

Thank you, Alice for writing this down. Every story is so meaningful and so important to be told by the person and be heard by others. Thank you for your sharing.

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Patti Petersen's avatar

I could barely get through this without weeping. I was right there with you. With your father. You certainly know how to share life with us. You are beautiful, poignant writer. I this book sells millions. It's a remarkable read. Thank you.

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Bryan Demchinsky's avatar

What the people close to us of that generation endured. These are stories that must be told.

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HELEN MCLACHLEN's avatar

Such a story, Alice! Thanks so much for sharing it. I was heartbroken for your father living a limited and difficult life in a seniors home. I wondered about MAID and how your father's experince informs your decisions on the end of your life. The story of your father's experience during the war would never have come to light if you were not put in this ideal situation to hear the story. You write well, Alice and your subject is very sompelling. Thanks for doing this, Helen

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Rita Waters's avatar

Really enjoying your writings, looking forward to more👏🏻👍🏻

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

I'm hooked. Your process of starting with the personal recollections and fanning out to the recorded history is so meaningful. Thank you for all of this.

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Lisa Maguire's avatar

Beautiful essay.

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Cynthia Scott Aucoin's avatar

Your writing is so engaging Alice. I’m very glad there is much more coming!

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Lynda Schneider Granatstein's avatar

Again, so touched. Your father's story is told with such love, detail, and laden with meaning. So beautifully written. xo

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Sylvie Lamoureux's avatar

So well told!

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david dussault's avatar

How incredibly moving! I cannot imagine the unimaginable as I sit here with my morning coffee. I have sent this story to my children. They must know these things lest, in our comfortable ignorance, they are repeated.

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